Reaching for Reciprocity

I read Robert Cialdini’s book Influence a few years ago. His explanation of “reciprocity” and how it affects our behaviour struck me. We’re all affected and influenced by it. Frequently without realizing it. And once you see it, it’s hard to unsee it. What is reciprocity? Reciprocity is when we do something or give something…

Monday Musings…

How long will it be before things get back to normal, after things get back to normal? I mean, when everyone gets vaccinated… Or at least when enough people get vaccinated… and the world leaders to give us the all clear sign… How long will it be before we get back to pre-2020 behaviours? Will…

Get Hemingway in your Corner

Since November, I’ve been using a secret weapon to edit my blog posts.  It’s made my writing tighter and easier to read.  It’s available 24/7.  And it’s free! It’s called The Hemingway Editor.  There’s a paid version that you can download.  But the online version is free. The awesome thing about is that it’s so…

Miracle Morning Revisited

It’s been over two years since I started doing the Miracle Morning.  I’m still not crazy about the name.  But I can’t deny the effectiveness of Hal Elrod’s idea:  Get up early and start doing your Life SAVERS.  Silence/Meditation Affirmations Visualization Exercise Reading Scripting/Journaling I’m still doing the MM every day.  Or mostly every day. …

March Mile Marker

My weight crept up in March. My average weight was 189.2lbs — an increase of 0.5lb over February’s average. Although, I was a little disappointed, I have to look at it in perspective. It was only half a pound… Instead of beating myself up, I looked closer at my plan. Last month, I decided to…

Lessons from my 58th year

I turned 58 a few weeks ago.  I was a bit late to the Pandemic Birthday Celebration Club.  But at this point, it looks like we’ve all become members.  Another year zoomed by.  So what did I learn in my previous year? Last year I obsessed about the Covid pandemic, like everyone else.  But there…